Make the most...

I love a good sale!  My shopping motto has always been “four letter words are best…SALE”!

I grew up in the era of SH Green Stamps.  As kids we would lick them and then put them in the squares of the SH booklet.  Once the booklets were filled and we had enough for what we wanted, it was off to the S&H Store to redeem the stamps for product.  We would walk into the store wide eyed with possibilities and the motivation to save and redeem!!

Every day we are given redemptive opportunities with those who are hurting, bound by addictions and life style choices or just weary of doing-life-my-way.  Life has become burdensome and hard.

   

You are probably saying, “What does that have to do with a sale?”  Glad you asked!   This is the thought behind make the most in Ephesians 5:15 and Col 4:5-6.

So be careful how you live.  Don’t live like fools but like those who are wise.  Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days.  Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.

Eph 5:15-17

Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity.  Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.

Col 4:5-6

In the Greek “make the most” is Exagorazo which means ‘to redeem by payment of a price to recover from the power of another, to ransom, buy off (i.e., metaph. of Christ freeing us from the power of the Mosaic Law and power of Satan at the price of his vicarious death).  It also means to buy up for one's use to make wise and sacred use of every opportunity for doing good, so that zeal and well doing are as it were the purchase money by which we make the time our own.’

With that in mind for those who call themselves followers of Jesus, it is time to 'make the most' in:

• redeeming all the head knowledge learned through the years about  grace and mercy
• giving the gift of grace and mercy to those around us no matter their circumstances
• living wisely as skilled craftsman (from practice) through our actions and speech among those who are hurting  

In making the most of every opportunity our actions can become a catalyst pointing others to Christ to experience peace, freedom and recovery from the power of addictions and hurts. 

So how about it, want to go redemptive shopping?

Fan the flame

This is why I remind you to fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave you when I laid my hands on you.  For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.  Through the power of the Holy Spirit who lives within us, carefully guard the precious truth that has been entrusted to you.

2 Timothy 1:6-7, 14

Every fall my nephew has a huge bonfire and then bakes the most delicious pizzas in his outdoor oven.  The scent of wood burning pizza and the bonfire sticks to our clothes for days bringing with it the sweet remembrance of times spent with each other.  I thought of him when I read this verse.  The bonfire starts off with a strategically placed Tepee built with different size tree limbs and trunks.  Although powerful looking it serves no purpose until it is lit and nursed into a strong powerful heat source.  When the time is right, the spark is lit and the night sky becomes brilliant with the light from the fire.  The outside temperature can be in the teens and yet the closer we get to the fire the warmer the air around us becomes.

The spiritual gift God gave to Timothy, and likewise to each of us, started with a spark.  The wood for the bonfire had been instilled in Timothy as a youth by his godly mother and grandmother.  Now was the time Timothy would have to ‘fan into flames’ that spark through exercising the power of the Holy Spirit living within him.  Flames will not come when wood is wet and likewise our faith will not grow when saturated with fear and anxiety.  These do not come from the Holy Spirit but rather the enemy trying to keep the bonfire from existing.  

Timothy didn't know the exact outcome of the flames any more than we know the end of the dreams and visions God plants in our hearts.  We don’t need to know, we just need to fan those dreams and visions with the power of the Holy Spirit by renewing our minds daily with his word and his strength.  Our controlling and manipulation will always leave us with wet wood.  God’s word stands guard over that precious truth and he will bring it to pass in his timing.   He then becomes our source of power, love and self-discipline, and strength…never be extinguished. 

The slippery road of a half truth

Ever been caught in a half truth and tried to squirm your way out of it? All the while knowing what you are saying is not completely right but enough to sound like the truth?
The problem with a half truth is it is also a half lie.
The Bible is an open book revealing flaws in ordinary people we sometimes elevate because of the extraordinary feats God accomplished through them.  God did not require perfection from them, only obedience...the same he requires from us today.  1 Samuel 15 is a perfect example of this.

Because of the opposition the nation of Amalek gave to the Israelites when they were passing through from Egypt, God decided to destroy their nation...everything and everyone.  Saul was given this mission to accomplish.
Enter half-truth half-lie.  Saul tries to convince the prophet Samuel he has accomplished the entire mission.  Samuel's response, “Then what is all the bleating of sheep and goats and the lowing of cattle I hear?” Gotcha, caught in the half-truth.  Saul squirms, blames his army (not once but twice) and then sugar coats the disobedience with the God element.   “It’s true that the army spared the best of the sheep, goats, and cattle,” Saul admitted. “But they are going to sacrifice them to the Lord your God. We have destroyed everything else.”

Just because Saul, you or I put the God element in the mix still doesn't make a half truth a whole truth.  Notice it was not Saul's God he refers to but Samuel's God.  Big clue into the condition of Saul's heart.

Again Samuel called him out on the lie: "Why haven’t you obeyed the Lord? 

 “But I did obey the Lord,” Saul insisted. “I carried out the mission he gave me. I brought back King Agag, but I destroyed everyone else.  Then my troops brought in the best of the sheep, goats, cattle, and plunder to sacrifice to the Lord your God in Gilgal.”

 But Samuel replied,

“What is more pleasing to the Lord:
    your burnt offerings and sacrifices
    or your obedience to his voice?
Listen! Obedience is better than sacrifice,
    and submission is better than offering the fat of rams.
 Rebellion is as sinful as witchcraft,
    and stubbornness as bad as worshiping idols.
So because you have rejected the command of the Lord,
    he has rejected you as king.”

Saul had no idea the web he was spinning would become the entrapment that would change the course of his life.  Rebellion and stubbornness in our lives are like threads woven together that reflect beauty on the outside but one false move and that pattern becomes the sticky chords of entrapment and death.  Half truths always end this way, we just can't predict the moment. 

Putting the cart before the horse

"You will be changed into a different person. After these signs take place, do what must be done, for God is with you. Then go down to Gilgal ahead of me. I will join you there to sacrifice burnt offerings and peace offerings. You must wait for seven days until I arrive and give you further instructions.” 

Meanwhile, Saul stayed at Gilgal, and his men were trembling with fear.  Saul waited there seven days for Samuel, as Samuel had instructed him earlier, but Samuel still didn’t come. Saul realized that his troops were rapidly slipping away.  So he demanded, “Bring me the burnt offering and the peace offerings!” And Saul sacrificed the burnt offering himself.

 Just as Saul was finishing with the burnt offering, Samuel arrived. Saul went out to meet and welcome him,  but Samuel said, “What is this you have done?”

 “How foolish!” Samuel exclaimed. “You have not kept the command the Lord your God gave you. Had you kept it, the Lord would have established your kingdom over Israel forever.  But now your kingdom must end, for the Lord has sought out a man after his own heart. The Lord has already appointed him to be the leader of his people, because you have not kept the Lord’s command.” (1 Samuel 10b-8;13:7-14 NLT)

Through Samuel, God gave Saul just enough instruction and insight into a future vision of the role he was to play in Israel.  Would Saul be willing and ready to be King of a people chosen by God to show and live his character before other nations?  Would Saul be willing to follow God’s leading and timing even though he might not understand it? Saul put the “cart before the horse” and all hopes and dreams of what he could have been and accomplished was gone. 

I think of this account when I ask God to give me dreams of what he wants to be and do through me.  God, give me just enough that I can’t figure it out before your timing or before you have prepared me to follow and not manipulate to take the lead.  Give me reminders of the dream to keep me from becoming impatient or discouraged by keeping my heart open and focused on the Giver of dreams.

Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Psalm 37:4

The Gift of Generosity

Remember this—a farmer who plants only a few seeds will get a small crop. But the one who plants generously will get a generous crop. You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.” And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others. As the Scriptures say, “They share freely and give generously to the poor. Their good deeds will be remembered forever.” For God is the one who provides seed for the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will provide and increase your resources and then produce a great harvest of generosity in you. Yes, you will be enriched in every way so that you can always be generous. And when we take your gifts to those who need them, they will thank God. So two good things will result from this ministry of giving—the needs of the believers in Jerusalem will be met, and they will joyfully express their thanks to God. As a result of your ministry, they will give glory to God. For your generosity to them and to all believers will prove that you are obedient to the Good News of Christ. (2 Corinthians 9:6-13) 

Gracious act of giving

I once heard a marriage conference speaker share that he and his family gave away all the money they had, not just once but twice!  This man was not a rich man but one of average means.  Interesting since finances rank in the top three of troubled areas for married couples.

He went on to explain that he and his wife clearly sensed God was telling them to give out of obedience not knowing if they would recoup to where they had been financially.  Not a good technique to share in counseling a troubled couple struggling with finances!!

I grew up under the pretense that you MUST give the first 10% of everything you earn, with much petty debate over gross or net, to God.  If you didn't fulfill this obligation you were not going to be blessed or _______(fill in the blank) could happen to you!  “God loves a cheerful giver”, is the imploring from the pulpit on Sunday mornings.  This always brought a sense of fear resulting in obligation and duty rather than joy and generosity.  How could these two thoughts be reconciled?  The answer would ultimately have a huge affect on the coffers of non-profit organizations but even deeper, the true heart treasure  of the giver.

2Cor 10:12b tells us not to use ourselves as a standard of measurement.  Whew…does that take the guilt away since I will never be able to measure up to someone else’s expectations and standards of giving.   The only standard to measure myself by is the standard of Christ (Eph 4:11-13). 

The apostle Paul gives us some guidelines for this standard in 2 Cor 8:1-15 (NLT)

·      Give ourselves to the Lord

God doesn't want my money!  Surprised?  The Creator of all doesn't need anything to accomplish his purposes.  What He wants and needs is my obedience and faith—not given out of duty or obligation but a heart of love and thankfulness.  He gave the ultimate Gift before you and I were even born. God initiated pursuing me because my mind, heart and soul are the greatest gifts I can give him.

·      Give ourselves to each other

When I understand and accept God’s amazing free gifts of grace, mercy, forgiveness and kindness; when I acknowledge that God has provided all my needs I then am able to freely give of not only what I have but of myself to others.  “…he uses us to spread the knowledge of Christ everywhere, like a sweet perfume.  Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God.” (2 Cor 2:14-16).  When we give ourselves to others we give a glimpse of Christ’s character. 

·      Give in proportion to what you have

Giving is not a competition sport.   ‘Showy’ giving not only distorts true giving but can also deny the basic necessities for those the giver is to be caring for.  Proportionate giving doesn't have a percentage sign.  Neither is the act of giving to clear self (or other) imposed guilt.  “Whatever you give is acceptable if you give it eagerly.  And give according to what you have, not what you don’t have.” (2 Cor 8:12)

·      Give even in troubled times

The past few years have been extremely financially difficult for many people and giving is usually the first area to be axed.  In this atmosphere giving can be very creative and doesn't always mean money.  Giving can be food, warm clothes or blankets to those without or spending time with the sick, elderly or those in prisons.

“Right now you have plenty and can help those who are in need.  Later, they will have plenty and can share with you when you need it.” (2 Cor 8:14)

·      Excel in the gracious act of giving

The churches Paul was telling the Corinthians about were “being tested by many troubles and…very poor.  But they are also filled with abundant joy, which has overflowed in rich generosity….they gave not only what they could afford, but far more.  And they did it of their own free will.  They begged us…for the privilege of sharing…”  He then encourages his readers, “I want you to excel also in this gracious act of giving.  I am not commanding you to do this.  But I am testing how genuine your love is…” (2 Cor 8:2-3,7)

To excel in anything comes with the price of practice and testing.  How are we doing?  How genuine is our love?

Gracious giving is "patient, kind not jealous, boastful or proud. It is not demanding, irritable, or keeps records.  Gracious giving new gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.' (1 Cor 13)

What better time  as we enter a fresh new year to excel in the gracious act of giving.

Where was God?

We will not soon forget the horrific events of December 14, 2012.  What started out as a typical day ended anything but typical for the residents of Newton, CT and the world.   I have no personal connection to any of the families who have been ripped apart nor can I even begin to imagine the depth of their grief.  I only know my heart and throat felt like someone was strangling me as I went to bed that night.  My grief became my enemy when trying to breathe and my mind raced trying to make sense of how anyone could do this horrible act against innocent children and those who tried to protect them.

Earlier that evening this question was posed, “Where was God?”  Even Jesus voiced this question of his father, God.   I’ve thought a lot about that question today.  I didn’t know what to say.  How would you have answered?  If you were one of those parents, would you have wanted a pat cliché answer?   Is there an answer?

Theological reasoning’s to this question have been explored and debated for centuries.  This debate does not however mean God was absent. 

I do know this; God was in the same place when his son was murdered.  He knows what it is to grieve over a loved one.  To give and love and be denied those in return.  He finds no pleasure in witnessing the indescribable acts his creation does to one another.  Nor does he find pleasure in letting go of someone who chooses to reject him.[i]  He has long been denied a place in our lives except when it is beneficial to us.  Nor, as has been suggested, did the gate for these indescribable acts swing open the day prayer was taken out of school.  The groundwork was laid long before then and has been built upon as our tolerance to truth and violence weakens. 

It strikes me no one is questioning the ‘where and why’ of evil (aka Satan) that day?  Satan is not a harmless once-a-year-Halloween-appearance person wearing a red suit with horns and a pitchfork.  He is a force who knows his time is limited and will steal, kill, and destroy anything or anyone who stands in his way including innocent children. [ii]  

Everything in life is not a clear black and white issue nor are the answers to life’s difficult questions.  Gun control is not be the solution in preventing these types of horrendous acts because morality and values cannot be legislated.  Those bent on destruction will find a avenue to accomplish it.

Being a child of God does not relieve us of pain.  We live in a world in which our actions affect others, good and bad.  But these are truths we can hold onto when everything else, including God, doesn’t make sense:

·         God is still God and there is no other equal to him or above him.  We can trust him even though we don’t understand.  Isaiah 40; 2 Peter 3:9; Isaiah 55:8-9

·         He hasn’t abandoned you or me:  “No, I will not abandon you as orphans—I will come to you.”  John 14:18; 2 Chronicles 16:9

·         We can have His peace in the midst of pain:  “I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart.  And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give.  So don’t be troubled or afraid…I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows.  But take heart, because I have overcome the world. (John 14:27; John 16:33)

Where was God that day?  Grieving alongside those whose hearts were ripped out.  Holding and giving them his strength to continue until he takes us to a home where there will be no more sorry, pain or hurt…ever again.

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[i] Ezekiel 33:11

[ii] 2 Corinthians 11:14-15; John 10:10